Wednesday, June 30, 2004

A personal note

I have posted in this month of my blog several videos from tumblr.com
which show extremely explicit examples of female sexuality, including
female masterbation to orgasm
and two examples of lesbian lovemaking.

I am extremely glad to be able to view these now.
They constitute an education for me on female sexuality.
This is a subject that was explicitly and totally blocked from my knowledge
in my youth,
and even in my marriage, due, I think, to attitudes that had been instilled in me by my parents,
I never make any real attempt to understand the sexual desires of my then-wife.
At any rate, as I just implied,
in my youth in the 1950s and adolescence in the 1960s
knowledge of "what woman liked" was never granted to me in any way, shape, or form
by my parents,
while the culture and schooling of that time also generally ignored it.
What little I could pick up about "what women like"
was gleaned from Playboy, Penthouse (men's magazines of the age)
and attitudes passed down through the male student grapevine.
The idea that women deserved to have orgasms of their own,
or that it was worth spending time and effort on their pleasure,
as opposed to the pleasure of the man (me!),
did not make an appearance so far as I could tell.
I was so clueless, my knowledge of sexual techniques hardly passed beyond the
"insert tab A in slob B" level of knowledge.

So I am enourmously grateful now, in 2011, that people, primarily women,
have gone to the trouble and probably risk and potential for opprobrium from some,
to document (make a video of) how they gain pleasure,
what they like best.

Thank you, thank you, thank you so much for filling in a part of sexual education
which the larger society still seems to make every effort to hide
(I suspect these videos themselves are considered "obscene" by the authorities,
making the very act of viewing them illegal in many contexts).
No wonder so many people, both married and single,
are having unsatisfactory sexual lives,
as exemplified for the married set by the number of public figures
who have strayed from their wives in the years up to 2011,
and documented for the single set by th article “Is Sex Passé?” by Erica Jong.

Monday, June 28, 2004

The female pleasure cycle

The original reference for this is Masters and Johnson Human Sexual Response:
@Wikipedia.

According to Masters and Johnson, it consists of the following phases:
  1. Excitement
  2. Plateau
  3. Orgasm
  4. Resolution

Sunday, June 20, 2004

Heterosexual sex

The material below presents an explicit example of heterosexual sex.
Please do not view it unless you are over 18 and it is appropriate that you view such.















A good example! (XXX)

Experiment with embedded video:

[Flash 10 is required to watch video]

Friday, June 18, 2004

Lesbian blogs

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Monday, June 14, 2004

Which is better?

While watching a video of one lady stimulating another,
the first lady spoke of what was happening as “a perfect fuck.”
That rather struck me;
I had not previously thought of sexual acts in quite such comparative terms.
Also, it suggested that women might be better at giving a perfect fuck,
whatever that is, than men.
Further,
I had at roughly the same time watched a video of a classic heterosexual “fuck”
which seems to represent quite a satisfactory turn of events
for the lady who received the action.
Yes, who am I to know, but even so,
the lady in the video professes rather grand satisfaction (OMG repeated often).

Anyhow, I thought I would present these two videos side by side,
so you may make your own comparison on which is better.
Of course, such a comparison is ridiculous in real terms,
but it is interesting, I think, to compare them anyhow.
The spirit here, such as it is,
is intended to be somewhat facetious,
in the manner of the old Miller Lite commercial:
"Tastes Great! Less Filling!".
The point being, it is really a matter of taste.

The commonality, I think, of the two videos is that in each case
it is the satisfaction of a woman which is the objective of the sex act.
Which I think is a fine think to pay attention to.


The material below is quite explicit.
Please do not page down to view it unless you are over 18
and it is appropriate that you view such.




















The heterosexual act
(5 minutes)
The lesbian act
(5 minutes)
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I have no idea how much of the reactions of the women in these videos is real,
and how much is just acting.
That is always a question.

Mix and match

The material below is quite explicit.
Please do not page down to view it unless you are over 18
and it is appropriate that you view such.


























Combos

Clit and G-spot, fingers, very vigorous
Clit and G-spot, fingers, very vigorous
Clit and G-spot, fingers, rather slow
Clit and G-spot, fingers
Clit plus one finger inside, very vigorous on clit

Two fingers inside, against back wall
G-spot plus hand rub on top, vigorous on G-spot
Classic clit-licking plus dildo insertion

A collection of good classic combos
Various
Wonderful!
Lady on bottom eats pussy above her (nose-aft),
plus vigorously rubs her pussy,
plus holds dildo in her own hole!
(Wait. It's not her vagina, but her rectum that is stretched
by the sex toy she is using.)
Now that's a lady whose sexual appetite I admire!
Wonder if she would enjoy receiving oral sex at the same time she is giving it!
What a perfect relation that would be!



In the above we see a lady face-sitting on a person with nose aft,
leaving the front of her genitals maximally exposed.
She takes advantage of this fact to reach down and insert several fingers into herself
to stimulate her G-spot.
Man, to me that sounds like a combination made in heaven! (For the lady, anyhow.)

The larger significance is
that method of a lady stimulating her own G-spot
can be combined with
many other sexual activities which involve the vagina.
I don't know how readily the vagina expands to accommodate insertions,
but in theory at least this can be combined with
normal heterosexual coitus, i.e., penile thrusting into the vagina.
In particular, if this particular male/female combination
has had problems with the vagina not providing a sufficiently tight fit
(colloquially called the "Grand Canyon" problem),
surely this will provide a tighter fit!

I am sorry if all this seems pathetically obvious to the experienced people,
but perhaps some will find it useful to have it pointed out.


Clit-licking plus four ? fingers of right hand inserted vertically up to last knuckle in vagina.

Clit licking plus thumb on ?anus?


VIDEO "Precious Love" Top clit-licks, finger-fucks first the vagina, then the rectum of
a very appreciative bottom.
There is some interesting simultaneous digital stimulation of the vagina and the rectum,
combined with very vigorous oral stimulation of the clitoris,
while the receiving lady stimulates her own breast.



VIDEO of self clit massage plus
second lady doing G-spot massage and sucking receiving lady's breast.
Very vigorous, very enjoyable for the receiving lady.
Followed by extended lip kissing between the two lovers.

Original (apparently) source for the above is
http://fuckmaker.tumblr.com/post/2381380718



"Put your hands all over me":
Finger-fuck plus clit-rub plus ear-kissing = orgasm ! (about 1m20s!),
followed by three or four minutes of mouth-to-mouth kissing.




Women Seeking Women 84 #2 Prinzzess, Sally Charles :
G-spot stimulation + clit sucking + hard breast squeezing, all by the same lady!


Friend fingers while lady rubs her own clit: Two are clearly better than one!


GIF: two-fingering by one who is being eaten by the one who is fingered


Lady inserts two fingers while receiving lady gives her clit a good rub!




Fingering

@wiki.answers.com


FF, two fingers, vigorous.

Three fingers, horizontal, all the way in.

Two fingers in on G-spot by a second person. Static photo.

Solo girl uses both hands to finger herself, one hand in front, the other from the read.
Only uses one finger of each hand to stretch her hole.


Hard fingering (not shown very explicitly) but
good vision of the ecstatic face of the receiving lady.


The following mainly, but not entirely, involve (two-fingered) fingering.
There is nearly constant thumb-on-clit stimulation as well,
varied by some oral clit stimulation.
I like girls part 1
It goes on for quite a while, with the receiving lady vocalizing great excitement followed by satisfaction :-)
After her first orgasm, the giving lady continues manual stimulation of the receving lady's vulva.
Then there is a scene break,
followed by the same receiving lady now on her stomach,
with the giving lady on top of her back, now fingering her from behind.
In something I don't understand, some kind of pink cloth is placed over the receiving lady's mouth, a gag it would seem,
while the fingering of the pussy continues.
I like girls part 2
For part 3, the ladies switch roles.
The blonde is now on the bottom, on her back,
while the brunette performs cunnilingus on her.
The cunnilingus is shown with great clarity
on the labia and clitches to manual pussy massage interspersed with oral stimulation.
The receiving lady makes very authentic appearing hand and arm motions
indicating her great satisfaction, along with sounds indicating she can scarcely contain her pleasure :-)
The receiving lady says "Keep sucking like that" :-)
Then the giving lady adds a thumb fuck to the sucking!
This really seems like a model of how to perform cunnilingus!
Unfortunately the video ends before a final climax is shown :-(
I like girls part 3.
Hottest cunnilingus video ever?



GIF of finger-fuck plus self-clit stimulation: two is better than one!

GIF: is that three fingers going in?

GIF: vigorous two-fingering

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Duos

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Multiples

(More than two!)

FFF sex:
cunnilingus:
now that&#8217;s a loooove triangle :D

Three handed triangle, three hands on three pussies
Another three-handed pussy rub
FFF, pussy and breast rub plus pussy rub
Somehow there is clit rubbing, G-spot rubbing, and cunnilingus all combined in this!
The receiving lady seems to be really enjoying all the stimulation :-)


Two ladies combine to stimulate the pussy of a third,
one on the clit, one with two or three fingers deep in the vagina,
while they kiss



(From wetspt):
Four ladies,
cunnilingus (deep valley licking) plus breast sucking.
Vivid, close-up view of cuntal valley, labia, and clit being licked and sucked,
to exquisite satisfaction and prolonged, extended orgasm
with added breast stimulation!
Then three other ladies sample the taste of
the juices that have been produced by
the well-stimulated and -satisfied cunt!
As the above remarks may suggest, this looks like a very genuine orgasm,
produced by a woman who really knows and enjoys producing same!

Note that the woman who had her pussy licked to orgasm
goes on to receive continual stimulation from the other women
even after her first orgasm,
evidently on the road to many more orgasms,
while the person who licked the first woman to orgasm
goes on to lick another pussy.
Talk about perseverance!

The English translation of the dialogue (original in a European language):

2:35 She’s coming.
3:25 You must come and try these flowing juices.
3:38 So warm and gooey.
3:45 Me now.
3:55 Are you enjoying?
4:00 Gorgeous.
4:05 Open up.
4:07 You’re still hungry?
4:10 There’s pussy on your mouth.



How to eat a girl out
Lady on her back has her clit licked and her hole finger fucked
while she simultaneously eats a pussy above her in the nose forward position














Now here is an image of a FMF trio combining face sitting with the cowgirl position:

Note that the ladies can simultaneously stimulate each other clits, manually or with vibrators,
while their labia and vagina (respectively) are being stimulated by
the mouth and cock of the male below.

Dildos and toys

Cosmopolitan suggests several.
But see also
stories of toys gone bad, in honor of Hysteria.




Now here are some GIFs and videos of toys in action:


Good-sized dildo, very fast and hard
Dildo going in about an inch, rather slow

Woman self-stimulates with a dildo, fairly slow, plus pussy rub.
Woman self-stimulates with a dildo, hard and fast, plus clit rubbing.
Dildo, inserted by a second woman.

Double-end dildo fucking plus receiving woman stimulating her clit.




Lesbian coitus

Generally,
this involves both a thrusting lady and a receiving lady.
This is the terminology used below.


Pussy to pussy, receiving lady has finger on each of her lips. Straplessdildo.com

Dildo in rectum combined with self-stimulation of clitoris,
leading to claimed orgasm.
Followed by dildo in vagina (same woman?), again leading to claimed orgasm.


Sensational Sinn Sage fucks Lily Labeau with a strap-on in the shower.
The receiving lady vigorously stimulates her own clit for more pleasure
while the dildo is stimulating her G-spot.
After this phase ends, presumably with her climax,
the receiving lady still wants more fucking action.
The strap-on wielding lady sits down,
and the receiving lady sits on the dildo,
in a reverse cowgirl position,
and bounces up and down on the dildo.
The video ends here, one wonders how the action ends.




Lily Carter_Zoey Holloway [part 2]


Lesbian Adventures - Strap On Specialists 4 - Leilani Leeane & Aiden Starr


GIF: vertical lady cowgirls a strap-on


Lesbian Sex 8 #4 Elexis Monroe, Sinn Sage
Lady being fucked lies on her side, with her hand clearly stimulating her clit
while she receives a vigorous fucking.
She seems to be really enjoying it!

strapped - Charley Chase and Nicole Graves

Video: Lesbian Sex 04 - Kara Price & Bobbi Starr
The blonde (Kara Price?) takes a nice big dildo up her vagina,
riding as cowgirl, facing forward.
She likes it;
I feel inadequate: the dildo is about twice as thick as I am! Sigh.
There is a wonderful closeup of the sex juices dripping down from her cunt
after the dildo is pulled out,
proof positive, I suppose, of how real her enjoyment of the penetration was! :-)
But wait!
After she finishes the first fuck,
she puts the dildo back in and rides it some more,
but this time slow and rhythmic!
The top cowgirl holds herself steady and stable,
and allows the bottom lady to fuck up into her cunt.
Then they move together in joint bliss :-)
The bottom reaches up and pinches both of the cowgirl's nipples,
pretty hard it looks like.
The fuck continues, with the bottom doing most of the work,
but the top cowgirl reacts most audibly (lots of panting and "Uhs")
to what is being done to her insides.
Then the top gets off,
and we get a look at how long the dildo was.
Wow!
It looks about ten inches long,
and the top took all of it!
The video ends with the lady who had been the (fucked) top
getting a strap.
Is she going to put on her own strapon?
Wish we could see the rest of the action.
In any case, if ladies are wondering how to perform lesbian coitus,
this video would seem a really outstanding tutorial :-)



GIF: Double-ended red dildo (Source: fuckmaker, via eff-yeah-iheart-her)

Who’s fucking whom? :-)

The images below include depictions of various acts of cunnilingus.
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Sunday, June 13, 2004

Saturday, June 12, 2004

Cowgirls

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Friday, June 11, 2004

Breast stimulation



“Breastfeeding has been one of the best experiences of my life,”
[Shakira] said.
“I love it! I can’t stop!”
Laughing, she added,
“I think I’m going to breastfeed him until he goes to college!
I’m hooked!”

Interview with US Magazine


Stimulation of nipples

Erotic lactation

A very brief discussion of “breast orgasms” in Wikipedia’s main article on orgasm.

Breast fetishism

Toplessness

Lactation


Unintended milk flow (galactorrhea) is often caused by nipple stimulation
and it is possible to reach normal milk production
exclusively by suckling on the breast.
[Google “Induced lactation” for many articles on how to do this.
A particularly detailed article, without medical references, is
“How To Induce Lactation”
at http://www.stargatelibraries.com/HowToInduce001.html.
I have no idea how accurate that advice is.]


Nipple stimulation of any sort is noted in
reducing the incidence of breast cancer.

[Source.]

In a study conducted in 1999,
approximately 33 to 50 percent of mothers found breast feeding erotic,
and among them 25 percent felt guilty because of this.
[I (the author of this blog) fail to understand why a woman should feel any guilt
over this.
Why do women feel guilty over erotic feelings?]

This study corroborated a study in 1949 that found that
in a few cases where
the arousal was strong enough to induce orgasm,
some nursing mothers abandon breast feeding altogether.
In a 1988 questionnaire on orgasm and pregnancy
published in a Dutch magazine for women, asked
"Did you experience, while breastfeeding, a sensation of sexual excitement?";
Thirty-four percent (or 153 total) answered in the affirmative.
An additional 71 percent answered in the affirmative when asked
"Did you experience, while breastfeeding,
pleasurable contractions in the uterine region."
[Source.]
















Some photos and images:






Water jet on pussy plus breast stimulation
bring a smile to a lady’s face :-)

Was what that lady was doing to her nipple
the same as
what nursing moms do to express their breast milk?
I don't know (I'm hardly an expert on this kind of thing,
but a most explicit tutorial is here)
but if so we might deduce that
Water jets or tongues
bring pleasure to
nursing moms :-)

By the way, if you didn't click on the tutorial on expressing breast milk,
here is an embed of that video:

and other related YouTube videos are listed here.



I can’t resist including the following photos:
That Time cover, and what it portrays, has unleashed a tsunami of commentary.
I lack the ability to add anything intelligent to that commentary,
and the desire to add anything inane to it.

For more on the photo and those that were alternative covers, see
http://www.time.com/parentingphotos:
http://lightbox.time.com/2012/05/10/parenting/#2
http://lightbox.time.com/2012/05/10/parenting/#3: This is especially striking. The mom simultaneously feeds two children, one on each breast, ages 4 years and 5 months.
http://lightbox.time.com/2012/05/10/parenting/#4

I will venture this opinion:
I am glad that these moms can view what they are doing
as so natural that it can be seen publicly.
I think that is a good idea.
As to the age range,
that is an issue on which I have no grounds to base an opinion.







Some X-rated GIFs and (possibly) videos of breast stimulation:

Lady lying on her back has one breast pulled up by a strong suck.

You might try a web search on Heather breastfeeds Magdalene :-)